Chapter 1
A.
Introduction
There areso many problems in Indonesia,
but the biggest problem is about free sex. The people think government is failed
for solve this problem, because they are think free sex is usual things. The
Frist think is lack of Education about sex in Indonesia. Thesecond is bad
environment can make the children has low attitude. The last is culture in
Indonesia has been disappearing in Indonesia. So, the three problems in the
text above can make the children in Indonesia will get so dump disease and make
themnot have future.
The lack education in
Indonesia still exists. In Indonesia the especially in small village the word
‘SEX’ is a weird thing. The people in
there think if the children know about sex they will do what he learn. Social
and culture observers Devi Rahmawati said “Education sex in Indonesia still
weird which will make students under age
in Indonesia become curios and make them do free sex”. The other opinion
passiveness parent in education sex is the biggest problem. Parents must
oversee and give them attention in their family. Partially rich people in
developing country still assume money will make their family happy, so they are
just attention for their work nether than their family. This mindset is totally
wrong because if the parent didn’t care about their children life. They
children will do bad things for make their life feel happy and get attention
for other people. The children will feel all of their parents get is just for
him. This attitude is a bad signed for their family because this problem will
make the family get broken home.
The bad environment is
factor can make the people under age do free sex. Youth or we can call
adolescent is a change attitude form children become adult. In this moment their
mental condition still lack. They are very easy for accept bad things in what
their see. If they are grow in the bad environment like their neighbor or their
best friend like watching porn movie and he share or give the information to
our children. They will feel curios and try to find the information about the
porn movie. If they are have lack ahlak or away from religion perhaps fall dawn
in the dump things that. I have story that from my experience
“I have friend his
name nano at junior high school in kebumen .In first think I meet him he is a
good people and diligent, but character change when he meet yanto. Yanto is
student in other class. I still remember when he gives the sex video to my friend
nano and I also watch it. In the first time I watch I feel disgusted, so I move
away from that place. But it was different in my friend he very enjoyed that
video. The next day my friend nano asked me for accompany him in the cyber café
in my hometown. I agree about that and after in there he asked for to searched
some porn video in internet. I surprise it,but can’t ignore it. Day for day and
he move away from me and I always looked him with new friend. In the grade 2 he
have first girlfriend and he also get new motorcycle from the parent, so
Starting from that I don’t know him anymore. But after
graduated in Senior
high school and I get grade 2 in my school. I hear him from my friend he have
children and expelled from his home.
This story prove me
that bad environment can gives negative effect from children.
The disappearing
culture in Indonesia can make children doing free sex. Indonesia is a county
has many culture. I think every culture in Indonesia to forbid do free sex for
their people. But, now that culture disappears. The causes that problem is the
influence of social media like Internet. Social media can make the people
become individual person, so if people become like that social conditions will
disappear. The effect is will make bad environment in the society and maybe the
people in there will think if a person under age doing free sex is usual think.
The disappearing culture in Indonesia is one of cause children under age doing
free sex.
Chapter 2
B.
Discussion
The statistics the victim free sex every
year is increase. So, now government and people in Indonesia try to solve the
problem. For example: Closing Doli brothels in Surabaya by Major Tri Rismahrini
. The people in Indonesia also accept that solution especially for the family
who care about the future children.” Tri rismawati Said: If they are has been
hard worked in this job until many years they are should behas a decent life,
but the in expatiation is No” .That opinion very gives me knowledge and
education for open my eyes. If we want success in this life we must find our
money with right way.
“If we want catch the snake we must get
their head first”. That word is the one idea from the government to solve the
problem about free sex in Indonesia that solution has been use by major Tri
Srimawati. But, for now solve the problem the government trying Increase an Education
at every school like adding more in Education religion or BK education.
In my opinion there are
2 Solution for make children age didn’t do free sex. First is the internal
Education is the second give them External education about sex in their life.
1.
Internal
Education for you children have motivated in your heart for
not doing free sex .
There
are some factors that make you children get internal education.
a. Parents must give the religious thing to the children
if
the children have good ahlak in their body or have he have high faith. The
children will survive and maybe they are can filter in their environment. The
parent also must oversee because children need guidance.
b. The teacher or the parents tell
the negative effect from free sex
Teacher
and parent must give them threaten to the children. Because, the children will
know and learnfree sex is forbidden. So, the children will dodge the free sex.
But, the teacher or the parents must tell him with right way that make the
children feel didn’t afraid what the teacher or parents said.
1. External educationfor
make you children can survive in the bad environment and when you interact with
bad friend. That some factor that make your children get external.
a.
The
people in the Indonesia must keep the
togetherness
People in
sociality must be neighborhood. Because if in there has good conservation of
relationship. They are will keep their environment with good way, so this thing
will prove our children have good environment.
b.
Government
must give punishment for who do free sex.
Government is the important things in
here for make the future generation still save. The government must be firm for
the children in Indonesia not doing free sex. So , the government should give
them punishment if they are break the role.
Conclusion
To summarize there are 3 problem that
make people under age in Indonesia do free sex. The first lack of education,
the second is bad environment, and the last disappearing culture in Indonesia
one causes why child doing free sex that can give them diseases. So, in think
Indonesia must give the children education about sex not only for parent , but
government also must solve this problem.
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